WIBTA stands for “Would I Be the A**hole?” and is used on online forums, especially Reddit, to seek opinions about whether a hypothetical action would make the person morally wrong or socially unacceptable.
Origins of WIBTA
The term originated from the Reddit community r/AmItheAsshole, where users share scenarios asking if they or others are in the wrong. “WIBTA” specifically refers to posts about potential actions.
How to Use WIBTA in a Sentence?
“WIBTA” is typically used when asking for advice about hypothetical situations. Examples:
- “WIBTA if I skipped my friend’s wedding for a concert?”
Asking if skipping a wedding for a concert would be wrong. - “WIBTA if I told my boss I need a mental health day?”
Seeking input about taking time off work. - “WIBTA if I didn’t invite my neighbor to the BBQ?”
Gauging opinions about excluding someone from an event. - “WIBTA if I re-gifted a present I didn’t like?”
Asking about the ethics of re-gifting. - “WIBTA if I confronted my friend about borrowing money?”
Wondering if addressing a sensitive topic would be inappropriate.

Pronunciation of WIBTA
Pronounced as “wib-tuh”.
Words Similar to WIBTA
- AITA: “Am I the A**hole?” – Directly asks if one is in the wrong.
- NAH: “No A**holes Here” – Indicates no one is at fault.
- ESH: “Everyone Sucks Here” – Suggests all parties are at fault.
- YTA: “You’re The A**hole” – Concludes someone is at fault.
- NTA: “Not The A**hole” – Affirms someone is not in the wrong.
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